REALove is an 8 week program designed to empower you with the tools you need to create the love, sex and relationships you truly desire.
"Best investment ever! I've done a lot of different programs and can proudly say that nothing compares to this one. Sarinia is a real goddess and her teachings are magical." - Kyrah
Words of Wisdom
I believe they are, and that is why I believe your pain is the most powerful leaping point.
Where have you experienced the most pain in your life?
Did it revolve around anything other than a relationship?
Whether it be a parent, friend or lover~ relationships are the most meaningful parts of our lives. If we suffer in our relationships, we suffer just about everywhere else.
Our health suffers, our work suffers, our creativity suffers.
If we can’t trust ourselves to make the right choices necessary to revive our relationships, our confidence suffers.
When I first met my fiancé six years ago, I did not think he was “The One”. You know the The One…the one that everyone talks about and waits their whole lives for. The one who will take all our pain and suffering away. The one who will rid us of all our insecurities so we won’t have to do that dreadful thing called “shadow work”. What shadow?! I don’t have one because my One true love has made me feel perfect all the time so I never experience “negative” emotions like rage, jealousy or fear. Nope. Because The One doesn’t make you feel those things...
Well that’s what I thought anyway and so my beloved man was sexy and fun and exciting but oh dear, certainly not The One. How could he be? 1 year into the relationship and I still had all my sadness, depression, fears, anxieties, raging jealousy and possessiveness. I was like….yeah. You ain’t it. But… I stayed. And do you want to know why I stayed?
Because my feelings were not reflective of who he was. They were reflective of who I was. Well, at least a part of who I was / am. (You’ll learn more about that in the program).
But ultimately, I was with a good, honest person who my desire burned deeply for. And I had my first spiritual awakening one night (completely sober) where a voice in my head asked me;
“If you leave this person, and you end up with another person, are all of these feelings and behaviors you’re acting out suddenly going to disappear?”
I knew the answer was no. Because based on the history, I was the same in all of my relationships.
What I didn’t know then which I do know now, is that realization never meant I was going to need to get rid of these parts of myself. I originally thought, “oh dear, I am fucked up. I’m gonna need to learn how to “get cool” FAST. That was the wrong destination to get to but I am grateful for the journey because it was exactly what I needed to get me out of the victim consciousness of, “Men make me feel bad. Men are the worst. Must leave all men.”
Through my own experience of growing and healing individually and in partnership, studying under various coaches, courses, books and programs, including the VITA Tantric approach to love, sex and relationships, I have gone on to create 2 programs of my own, combining both to create REALove 2.0 and have personally coached well over a hundred women. It is my absolute pleasure to guide you on this journey of personal empowerment, conscious loving, and spiritual expansion because it has been THE most deeply transformative path of my life. A path that I will only continue to walk on as a daily practice of learning and experiencing all that I am and all that we are. A path of becoming whole, with or without a partner.